PART 1
PAIR WORK Do you meet new people often? Where do you meet them? Who have you met lately?
Read the article. How does Kenneth say you can learn about someone?
What kind of person are you?
How do you get to know someone new? You can ask a lot of questions: What’s your name? Whose class are you in? Which neighborhood do you live in? Where did you go to school? What kind of work do you do? But the answers don’t tell you about someone’s personality. I think it’s best to listen to the questions that people ask you.
A sociable person, for example, will ask you a lot of questions. Quiet people don’t ask you much. The same is true about selfish people – they show little interest in other people. Or imagine you’re telling someone about a problem you have. A generous person might ask, “How can I help?” But if you ask someone for help first, and they agree, are you sure they’re really helpful? Or are they just afraid to say “no”?
So, the next time you meet someone, ask less, and listen more. The questions people ask show more about their personalities than their answers do.
PAIR WORK Read the article again. Do you agree with Kenneth? Why or why not?
PART 2
Listen and repeat.
PART 3
It’s your turn
SPEAKING
GROUP WORK What questions do you ask when you meet people for the first time? What do you think your questions say about you?
PART 4
A
Read a woman’s descriptions of three people she knows. Then check (✔) three words that describe each person.
1 My friend Anna is always in a good mood and spends a lot of time with friends. She doesn’t get upset about little problems like missing the bus or losing her keys. But she’s usually about 30 minutes late when we get together because she can’t find her keys!
☐ cheerful
☐ nervous
☐ easygoing
☐ sociable
☐ reliable
2 Marco is eight years older than me. He’s my brother, but sometimes he’s more like a parent. He gives me money when I need it for rent or food. He gave me a room in his house when I first started school. He even protected me from our neighbor’s angry dog when I was little. He’s great, but he doesn’t always tell me the truth. I mean, he never tells me when he has a problem. He doesn’t want me to worry.
☐ brave
☐ generous
☐ honest
☐ selfish
☐ helpful
3 My friend James is the smartest person I know. He reads one or two books a week. I don’t see him very often because he’s always at home reading or studying. When we get together, we have interesting conversations about science and politics. I like talking with him, but some people don’t feel the same way because he always tells them when they say something that’s wrong.
☐ easygoing
☐ intelligent
☐ nervous
☐ serious
☐ honest
B
Describe yourself. Use the personality words from part 1A.
Put the words in the correct order to write questions. Then match the questions with the answers.
1 you/do/work/kind of/What/do/? What kind of work do you do?
2 you/Why/ Japanese / are/learning/?
3 teacher/your/Who’s / Japanese/?
4 do/in/Which/you/live/neighborhood /?
5 is/next/When/class//your/?
6 class/in/are/history/you/Whose/?
a It’s Professor Kubota.
b Professor King’s class.
c It’s at 2:00.
d I’m a nurse.
e I’m going to Japan this summer.
f I live near the university.
Imagine a new student has just joined your class, and you want to find out about his or her personality. What questions can you ask? Complete the questions with your own ideas. Then answer the questions
1 What is the most …. ?
2 Where do you love to …. ?
3 How do you feel when …. ?
4 When was the last time you …. ?
5 Who do you spend …. ?
6 Why …. ?